It’s been 8 months since I got married through an arranged set-up. My wife is an educated, working professional, born and brought up in Lusaka.
My problem begins with the fact that we don’t share physical proximity. She says that she doesn’t feel strongly for me. I do understand that a person involved in an arranged marriage takes time to open up and therefore, I decided to give her time to develop feelings but guess, that didn’t help. Whenever, we try to have sex, it turns very awkward because she is not able to reciprocate.
I am not sure if this is due to lack of sexual knowledge, fear of pain, or lack of feelings towards me. We are contemplating seeing a doctor. Please advise.