Mildred Mukwemba is my name. My original names are Mildred Mazuba Hachiyumbe. I am a woman aged 25 years old and I am married to Jonathan Mukwemba, who is 28 years old. My story is like this:
Jonathan and I married last year on January 14. We had a very BIG wedding, we spend over K13,000 on it and we ended up making K22,000 from people’s donations, gifts, and so on. I used to work in Solwezi as a secondary school teacher and my husband works in Lusaka as an electrician.
When I married him, I thought that ours would be a HAPPILY EVER AFTER marriage. We moved to a big house in Emmasdale; we live a very satisfying life–we are not rich but we still manage to take care of our everyday needs. Just after our marriage, Jonathan’s sexual appetites went wild and he begun to have sex with me 15 times in a day. In fact, he took a 30 DAYS LEAVE from his work just to have sex with me at home, and he also sweet-talked me to get a 30 DAYS LEAVE from Solwezi.
Those 30 DAYS were like HELLFIRE for me. He would screw me from 06 hrs to 09 hrs, and then from 12 hrs to 15 hrs, and then from 17 hrs to 22 hrs, and then from 01 hrs to 03 hrs. Instead of feeling to be his wife, I started to feel like I am his SEX MACHINE. Those 30 DAYS passed and we both returned to work. I was in Solwezi for 4 months and then I returned home. I stayed for 31 days with him, and he would screw me for 8 hours in a day. I don’t know where he gets all this energy from.
I wanted to return to work and he told me to STOP working. He said that he gets good money per month, over K3,000 and he can manage to support us as I look for some teaching work in Lusaka. I didn’t want to argue with him, and so I resigned from my work. Things got worse and worser. He screwed me more and more each passing day, and I got hospitalized after my punani got swollen and it had begun to bleed.
Two months have passed now and I still haven’t fully recovered. I am now three months PREGNANT and I thought that my pregnancy will make him minimize his sex with me. I was so WRONG! He now screws me from 21 hrs to 03 hrs every night, and he even comes home at lunch (from 12.30 to 13.30 hours) just to hammer my punani. I don’t know what to do. I have tried to knock some SENSE into his SENSELESS head but he keeps on saying that, “A man is man; who needs sex from his woman more than anything else.”
Whenever I deny to have sex with him, he sleeps out and he comes home the following morning. Please help me. I feel helpless and stranded right now.