I am a 28-year-old woman. I have had my share of unpleasant relationships, but right now I am single and waiting for the right guy in my life. There was a guy in my college, who pursued me for a long time, but I never felt the same way for him. Recently, he approached me again and is back to pursuing me.
I am strangely not shunning him completely this time and cannot even decide my feelings for him. He doesn’t stimulate me intellectually and it’s difficult to have a conversation with him, but then I do not understand why I’m unable to completely get rid of him.
I respond to him as per my whims and fancies, without really giving him signs of any possibility of a relationship. But I fear he might be seeing some hope.
How should I deal with this?