Am I Just Using Him?

love-matersI am a 28-year-old woman. I have had my share of unpleasant relationships, but right now I am single and waiting for the right guy in my life. There was a guy in my college, who pursued me for a long time, but I never felt the same way for him. Recently, he approached me again and is back to pursuing me.


I am strangely not shunning him completely this time and cannot even decide my feelings for him. He doesn’t stimulate me intellectually and it’s difficult to have a conversation with him, but then I do not understand why I’m unable to completely get rid of him.

I respond to him as per my whims and fancies, without really giving him signs of any possibility of a relationship. But I fear he might be seeing some hope.

How should I deal with this?

5 Responses to "Am I Just Using Him?"

  1. Pic   November 13, 2016 at 1:23 pm

    You belong to the devil ?

  2. salamati   November 15, 2016 at 6:24 pm

    ukutumpa.. there’s enough bed space for you at the most common mental asylum.

  3. Chris Chabalala   November 16, 2016 at 12:04 pm

    Sounds like you are not ready for any relationship

  4. Duncan   November 16, 2016 at 5:24 pm

    Hule mentality,you have been dating alot of different men & am sure you are even sick,

  5. Zulu   November 23, 2016 at 4:37 pm

    no sense, you want people to decide for you. are you not old enough . I believe the guy is poor. you are looking for a millionaire .this is the current fashion we have adopted from the westernize worldliness.