I Don’t Hate My Husband For Having An Extra-Marital Affair, Does That Make Me A Bad Wife?

love-matersDear Readers,
We are married for more than 10 years now and have two beautiful daughters. Tied in the regularities of our day to day life we had stopped enjoying each other’s company. So I started meeting my friends more often, took solo vacations and started enjoying life again.
I recently got to know that my husband is having an affair with his ex-girlfriend. I felt hurt at first but then I felt grateful that there is something that’s keeping him happy (and busy). And the fact that he is trying to keep it a secret from me makes me feel important.
He is not letting that affair affect our domestic life and I really have nothing to complain. Am I wrong if I don’t want to confront him about the affair? Does that make me a bad wife?

5 Responses to "I Don’t Hate My Husband For Having An Extra-Marital Affair, Does That Make Me A Bad Wife?"

  1. Taulai   September 13, 2016 at 3:36 pm

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    keep your eyes on JESUS

  2. hbhb   September 14, 2016 at 10:01 pm

    you are also in a relationship mayo coz its not normal to keep quite when yo spouse is misbehaving.nelyo imwe nimwe ba girl friend(block b)

  3. Liyah   September 16, 2016 at 9:18 am

    If what you are saying is true then trust me I salute u and for that I can even take u to th salon to do u masai picking *number1 masai* if I knw u nd witot hesistatn . We need more women lik u mwandi n our 2 d’living, I salute ya faith nd strength.

  4. MOJA MOJA   September 17, 2016 at 1:27 pm

    every medicine if taken long time it develops a side effect. maybe you as well one is eyeing you and makes you laugh, but the general point is what ever your man is missing … you can as well give him. but if you let it it continue, the person he is see will say she wud rather have him wholly than part time then what???????? on you. be gentle and face the facts. so many thing are brought home if home privates are exposed…….. THINK

  5. hbhb   September 23, 2016 at 6:44 pm

    aka ka article nanomba takalafumapo